Posted by mardack at April 24th, 2006
The trouble with so many women is that they really don’t want to hurt your feelings. They’re just too damned polite.
Or else they want to be pursued. They need to know that you think they’re worth the time and effort. (Don’t think they haven’t considered this, learned it from their mothers,…
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Posted by mardack at April 21st, 2006
See that girl across the room? Ba-da-boom! That’s the one!
Buy her a drink. She smiles. You chat. She smiles. It’s all good. So you ask her out. And she . . . declines.
What happened? What did you do wrong?
Not a thing. She simply wasn’t attracted to you.
You must have been on the flip side…
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Posted by mardack at April 18th, 2006
Dear Auntie,
I’ve got two questions that are driving me crazy.
First of all, why do men always assume that if you’re friendly and seem to like them ok, of course you want to have sex with them? They even ask you, “Why don’t you want to have sex with me?” Like, what am I supposed to tell them? I…
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Posted by mardack at April 16th, 2006
It may seem as though the mating game is little more than a crapshoot—at least on those days when you keep coming up snake eyes.
That’s not entirely true, though. As with most things, there are rules. Know them, use them, and the odds can shift heavily in your favor.
Rule I. The mere-exposure…
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Posted by mardack at April 15th, 2006
Virtual libraries have been written about rejection—how to survive it, how to rise above it. You’ve seen the titles: 3 techniques, 9 phases, 18 steps to . . . deal with it. The truth is, you will survive it (unless you decide not to), and you can learn from it, if you’re straight with…
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Posted by mardack at April 6th, 2006
Asking for that first date is one thing; making it turn out great is something else again. You want to get to know each other better, have fun, fan the flames, and—if all goes well—clinch a second date.
No problem. All you need is an entertaining activity that stimulates all those good-buzz brain…
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